Being a zombie skateboard dad is the greatest job on earth
Thursday, February 26, 2009 by glennI’ve been watching my kids skateboard for nearly a decade now. We’ve been back East, we’ve skated in the US Heartland, the Rocky Mountains and the West Coast. It’s been a lot of fun and I can tell you that I wouldn’t trade places with anyone in the whole wide world.
We’ve met so many interesting people from all walks of life and everyone has a common thread, skateboarding. I’m actually not sure why and how I got so interested in the sport. Early on, I got on my son’s skateboard and nearly broke my arm just rolling down the driveway. Occasionally, I’ll walk over to him at the skatepark and take his board and act like I’m going to show him something. It usually draws a lot of eyeballs since all the other kids know me and have never seen me skate. Casually, my son will take the board from me and go do an elaborate trick so I don’t get embarrassed. Then, I typically walk back to the sidelines and say something like “You know I showed him how to do that”.
One endearing quality I’ve observed in all the skate parks we’ve visited is the admiration the parents have for their kids. Some sit stoically and proud, others twitch and hold their breadth on every trick and once in a while you’ll see a parent jump up, pump their fists and scream “yeah” as if their favorite team had just scored a touchdown in the super bowl. It’s usually followed with “You know I showed him how to do that”. It’s funny how things work out in life, of all the things I could teach my kids, skateboarding was NOT one of them.
Sure, it’s not easy driving to the parks each day, taking care of the occasional bumps and bruises or just generally finding the time. It’s really weird though, you see I feel as if I’m the one that wants to go to skatepark now and I’m always disappointed when one of my sons says “no, not today dad”. Then, I have to get creative, I’ll make a comment like “seems like there might be a lot of people to show-off for today” and if that doesn’t work I’ll escalate with a possible trip to Chipotle or Tokyo Joes afterwards. Finally, if that doesn’t work, I pull out all the stops with some new bearings, wheels or even a brand new deck, but clearly that can get pricey and only happens once on a blue moon.
It’s really hard for me when I’m away from my kids on a trip or something, but it’s comforting to know that even when we are apart we are still together in spirit. I know when I return, I can always count on them and I know that they know, they will always be able to count on me. It’s that unconditional love thing. I’ve really enjoyed watching my kids grow up and can’t wait to see what they do with their lifes in the future. So in part that’s why being a “zombie skateboard dad” is the greatest job on earth.



